Dr. Carolyn Cole

Clinically Speaking

Psychology has been my calling for as long as I can remember. I was a high school student when I first became fascinated by mental illness—particularly schizophrenia—and I knew then that I wanted to devote my life to understanding the human mind and helping people find their way back to themselves.

That was over 36 years ago, and I’ve been a clinical psychologist ever since.

In graduate school, I was lucky to be taught by professors who weren’t just scholars—they were practitioners. They brought the science of psychology to life with theory, lived experience, and clinical passion. That blend of intellectual rigor and practical impact shaped my professional values, and I’ve been fortunate to continue learning from mentors and colleagues in community mental health, private practice, and academic settings.

Throughout my career, I’ve worked with individuals and families across the lifespan—from young children to seniors. But my deepest sense of purpose comes from working with couples. The couple is the emotional center of the family. When the partnership is strong, it ripples out into the wellbeing of the children being raised, the care of aging parents, and the professional success of each partner. And when the relationship is strained, it often bleeds into every corner of life.

I specialize in working with couples who are struggling to connect—whether they’re loudly conflictual or quietly distant. Some come in feeling hopeless; others are just stuck. But no matter what, I believe every couple deserves a clear path to healing, and it’s my job to help them find it.

My approach is direct, supportive, and always anchored in evidence-based strategies. I believe in front-loading therapy—setting a strong foundation early on through deep engagement and focused work. That’s why I’m so drawn to intensive couples therapy. It aligns beautifully with my clinical style and my belief in the power of immersive care.

Work Summary


Early in my training, I held placements in neurodevelopment and psychiatric diagnostics. I worked with children, adolescents, and their families in outpatient therapy settings, providing both individual and group support. I also supervised a day treatment program for adults with severe and persistent mental illness, and later conducted psychological assessments for people across the lifespan.
I’ve taught and supervised medical residents, graduate students, and school volunteers, and I continue to believe in the importance of mentorship and clinical training.


But through all these roles, I’ve always returned to couples work as the core of my practice. Because when a relationship works, everything else becomes more possible.

Clinical Office: Cleveland, Ohio

Cleveland’s East Side is culturally rich and full of charm. From the Cleveland Museum of Art and the Cleveland Museum of Natural History to the Botanical Gardens and the historic Cultural Gardens, there’s no shortage of ways to slow down and reconnect while you’re here. Plan ahead and book a concert at the world-renowned Cleveland Orchestra—or simply enjoy a stroll through our many green spaces.

My office is located on the east side of Cleveland in a warm, welcoming space designed to help couples feel at ease. I offer both in-person and telehealth intensives, depending on your needs.

I often encourage couples to stay an extra day or two after their intensive to explore the city and let the work settle. There’s something about Cleveland that invites reflection—and healing.

The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame is always worth a visit.

Personally Speaking

If you ask people who know me, they’ll likely describe me as steady, generous, and quietly persistent. I’m someone who follows through, listens carefully, and isn’t afraid to hold space when things feel messy. I’m goal-oriented, but I also understand that not everything can be fixed in a straight line. Sometimes healing is slow. Sometimes it’s nonlinear. But I never lose sight of the progress being made.

I returned to my hometown in Ohio after 31 years away, and it’s been grounding to reconnect with my roots. There’s comfort here—in familiar streets, old friendships, and the presence of extended family. My three children are a central part of my life, and the relationships I’ve built and maintained over the years remain a constant source of joy and strength.

I tend to be an overachiever once I commit to something, and I’ve learned how to manage emotional and logistical chaos without getting stuck in it. I get in, sort it out, and move forward.

That’s true in my personal life, and it’s true in therapy too.

Outside the Office

When I’m not working, you’ll likely find me outside—cycling, skiing, hiking, or practicing yoga. As I get older, I’ve become more intentional about balancing active pursuits with slower, more restorative time: reading, cooking, volunteering, and spending time with people I care about.

Travel continues to be a source of joy and perspective, and I find that being in new places helps me return to myself. It’s the same experience I hope to offer couples during our intensives—a chance to step out of the everyday, reconnect, and come home changed.


I warmly invite you to join me in Cleveland, Ohio for a private couples therapy retreat. Let’s do the work—together.

Dr. Carolyn Cole with sunflowers.