Rebecca Lanier

Ongoing learning is essential to my practice. I stay current on the latest in couples therapy through workshops, trainings, and supervision. As a clinician, I’m always evolving—because the people I serve deserve nothing less.

Personally Speaking

I know what it’s like to be on the other side of the therapy room.

When I was a teenager, my parents divorced—and everything I thought I knew about family changed overnight. Like so many children, I didn’t choose the divorce, but I had to adjust to its ripple effects: stepparents, new homes, redefined boundaries, and a deep sense of loss. Therapy helped me make sense of it. That early experience planted the seed for the work I do now. And in a beautiful twist of fate, I now see clients in the very same office building where I once sat as a client myself.

It’s because of this full-circle experience that I never forget the courage it takes to walk through the door. I hold that courage with reverence.

One quote that guides me:

“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our life.”

Our ability to love well—through conflict, change, and uncertainty—is what makes life meaningful.

My Office in Naples, Florida

My office is nestled in the heart of Naples, just minutes from sugar-sand beaches, the famous Naples Pier, and the tranquil Gulf of Mexico. Naples is serene, elegant, and quietly luxurious—an ideal setting for couples to slow down, reconnect, and do deep emotional work.

Inside, my office feels like a cozy living room. It’s private, warm, and designed to help couples feel comfortable enough to open up and be real.

Outside? You’ll find sunsets over the water, quiet walking paths, and the kind of peace that only the ocean can offer.